The holidays are getting closer and closer, yet you still have no clue what to give to your loved ones? Lighten your load with these low-stress last-minute gift ideas and strategies from Josie Ortega.
Friends, I have been a gift-giving failure more times than I’d like to admit.
As a non-expert, with less than a week until Christmas, I want to offer a few last-minute ideas that might relieve the pressure you’re feeling to find THE perfect present for EVERYONE on your list.
This post is only for those of you who haven't thoughtfully selected gifts, based on a profound understanding of your loved ones' hopes and deepest desires. Perhaps you've been an excellent listener throughout the year, making notes when family members and friends casually mention interests or items they’d like.
I had a document like that once... it still exists, somewhere in the cloud... Anyway, let's talk about my ideas for great last-minute gifts!
My husband and I both love history. I enjoy browsing antique shops and my husband once mentioned WITH CLARITY that he'd love an antique typewriter. I captured that information in my Gift Ideas document.
When an old typewriter came up for grabs in my local Buy Nothing group, it triggered my memory. I confirmed my notes, and I foolishly took my kids with me to pick up the ancient typewriter from a very nice stranger's porch. IT WAS SO HEAVY and probably caused irreparable damage to my sturdy off-road jogging stroller. (I never run with the stroller, and I never take it off-road, so at least it could haul an antique typewriter.)
Worth it, right? I was so proud of my organizational skills and my wifely thoughtfulness. And then: My husband did not remember his specific, expressed desire for an antique typewriter, and he just thought I was a weirdo.
That gives you some context for my gifting philosophy and the baggage I'm carrying. (The typewriter still resides in his office today.)
You win some, you lose some. Let’s try to keep it simple and joyful:
Take a page from my brother Will's book, who with curmudgeonly charm used to pull out a cardboard box on Christmas morning, full of books from Oxford Mississippi's famous Square Books. Not wrapped. Not necessarily for a particular recipient. He'd describe them to us, make recommendations about who might like what, and we could each choose a book or two.
So don't waste any time shopping and go to local one-stop shops. I love that Will's approach embodied efficiency and minimal effort, yet it still conveyed care and thoughtfulness. If you haven't carefully considered your recipients' desires, it still feels thoughtful to give them something that means something to you. Something you love completely. The go-to item I never want to live without coffee beans from Alexandria, VA’s own Swing's Coffee Roasters.
Our local cheese shop (and I pray that you may have one also) has a bevy of consumable gifts, as well as cute knives and accouterments, and boxes of charcoal crackers that make perfect stocking stuffers. (Get it?? Naughty = charcoal.)
Dock some points for not being local, but you can complete your entire shopping list at Whole Foods, which carries everything from stinky cheese to large stuffed giraffes. At the checkout, I was so tempted by John Denver and The Muppets Christmas Album.
To top Whole Foods, and to even out this map, you can find amazing gifts on your drive home at any Cracker Barrel Old Country Store. If you're not familiar: it's half restaurant, half store, ALL COUNTRY. I noticed the scope of gift options on our Thanksgiving drive, including, but certainly not limited to:
You also could just wrap up items from around your house, like Great Aunt Bethany in Christmas Vacation. Kind of a hoarder prevention thing. You don't have to call it death cleaning like they do in Sweden, but it's worth considering.
Keep it light-hearted and you’ll be headed in the right direction. (Remember: people are more important than things. When in doubt: skip the shopping and schedule a lunch date!)
Good luck and Godspeed with your holiday shopping. May the discounts be with you.